11.29.2008

Happy Sickgiving!

All of the Smiths were in town for Thanksgiving. There are now 10 adults and 10 children, ages 10 to 8 months in our little clan. So, when I knew all 20 of us would be at my house for supper starting Monday night and for various meals throughout the week, including Thanksgiving, I decided this would be a good week to come down with a horrible case of strep, requiring 2 visits to the ER. Needless to say, we did a little improvising, moved people around so no one was staying at our house for a few days, and everyone pitched in in various ways, and we still had a great week together! Our family is very blessed and we have much to be thankful for.

In the spirit of Thanksgiving, I was very thankful for the barf bag!


Papa and I took some of the kids on a night walk to the park!


LATE night walk with Papa and Katy


One of my favorite parts of having everyone together, is watching the 10 cousins!


Nana & Papa cutting their Christmas tree with their grandkids (Charlie was napping)


Sweet note Torrey left behind

11.22.2008

Wacky Hair Day!

The boys love their school and love getting into the spirit days. This past Friday was Wacky Hair Day. Ben was totally geared up and excited to spike his hair, while Matt was a bit more hesitant.

After agonizing over what to do, Matt decided he wanted two little spikes, or horns, for his wacky hair.

Confident 2nd Grader


Wild & Crazy Kindergartener

11.14.2008

Dad's Retirement

A week ago Dad found out that his company was going to be sold, and after some conversations with the HR department, decided that it was in his best interest to retire and claim full-disability.

We are all so proud of what Dad has done for our family over the past 44 years of his working life. We love him so much and are thankful that he can enjoy some time doing the things that he loves most.

Here is an email he sent to his co-workers (posted with his permission):


From: Paul R. Smith
Sent: Sunday, November 09, 2008 7:11 PM
To: *Paragon - Mpls
Subject: Time to say good-bye


Good-bye Everybody. I've loved being at Paragon (Years 38-44 of my working years) Special thanks to Cathy Caviness for alerting me to the job opening after my layoff from Citigroup, to Martin & Shari, who hired me, to the Cat Fund Team with whom I started, and to the Viking Team and Tech assistants , with whom I finished, also to my managers and HR who kept creatively giving me second chances when I wandered off the preferred routes to success, and to Shelley, who rescued me in the final weeks from my old one-person- per -car mode of getting to work. This little, fun, smart, hard-working respectful, unusual, unpredictable, determined company "P" and its kind, generous, non-micro-managing parent, "B", have been extraordinary as my employer.

Thank you all for your friendliness, your tolerance of my caps and loquacity. Thanks for your love, not to get sappy, but you know this place can really be a pretty tight family, and we DO share a lot, which is very cool in my view. OK, now go and make it a good day, because I'm starting to choke up.

Paul R Smith 11-14-2008


Fine print: My situation, (this is only for those of you that are interested in this stuff) is that in 2006, I began to have symptoms of “mild cognitive impairment” a term the neuro-psych people use to describe early dementia, and various thinking and memory problems. I was working on the FHCF (CatFund) team at the time, and it became obvious that I couldn’t do the work reliably any more, so they nicely put me into a technical assistant role where I could do copying, scanning, etc. That worked pretty well for a time, but then recentlyI began struggling with those duties also…forgetting key things, missing deadlines and email messages, getting mixed up trying to keep documents in order. I’m in a genetic group that is at higher risk for Alzheimer’s than the general population. I have been taking the 2 popular meds that have been shown clinically to help slow the progression of Alzheimer’s, but nothing has yet been shown to stop it or restore damaged brain tissue to former health. Science is very busy in the area, and many expect a breakthrough within 20 years or less. So my supervisors and HR looked at my situation and the reality that it was likely to get worse, and decided that this would be a good time for this 64 year old to say goodbye, apply for disability assistance, and bring in the people who can do the work. I agree completely, and I am TOTALLY on board with the decision. Martin, Shari, the whole HR team (Agnes S, Kim S, Lisa O,Ron M etc) have been proactive advocates for me and my situation, so although the time of departure was not something most of us had been focused on, it made a lot of sense when they figured out that waiting and doing nothing would make things worse for everybody, including me. So Friday 11/14 is my final workday (Note, this paragraph is a perfect example of my written loquacity! Good grief, I didn’t retain enough of our recent business writing course.)

Don’t feel sorry for me, God has been very good to me, and I am richly, richly blessed.

You are each a friend with face I should remember well, but not so well, your name.

11.07.2008

MN Weather

On Monday we had a high of 74 and today we woke up to a pretty snowfall, and as of 10:45 am, the snow is still on the ground and beautifully coating the trees. We love the change of seasons and the boys were excited about the snow.

But there is a downfall. Snowpants, boots, coats, hats and mittens.

Ben and Matt wanted to bring all their gear to school today, and of course, I hadn't pulled anything out. I frantically found everything and had the boys quickly try things on to see what would still fit. We found things for both boys, but it was crazy as we were racing against the clock to get to school on time.

Matt being Matt was stressed about how to carry everything, where to put it all in his locker, and how to keep track of it all. I tried to assure him he would be okay, but he was quite worked up. He'll have ALL WINTER to get used to the new routine!

I guess I'll have ALL WINTER with this routine, too.

11.01.2008

Technical Difficulties

It seems our digital camera has bit the dust. My blog flashed before my eyes when I realized I might be without photos for a while! In the meantime, you'll have to put up with my boring writing. Pictures really do speak a thousand words.

Trick-or-treating with the boys was a lot of fun. Ben was a skeleton, Matt a fireman, and Adam was The Cat in the Hat. You'll have to check out my sister's blog to see some pictures. We had perfect weather for being outside, and we came home with way too much candy! I would love to take 99% of it and toss it, but the frugal side of me feels guilty for doing that.

I'm lying.

It's not that I'm frugal, it's that I want to eat the candy myself! When it comes to sweets, I have zero will-power.

We're enjoying great fall weather this weekend, but Christmas lists and shopping aren't far from my mind!